There are a few steps you can take to get the full benefit from the site.

• Make sure you have a photo posted, and that the photo shows you at your best.
• Make sure your picture is large enough to be comfortably viewed.
• Complete as much of the Profile as you feel comfortable with.
• As you complete your Profile, include details.
• Be positive in your Profile responses.
• Answer some of the essay questions.
• Join the Chat Room(s).
• If you are too specific about who you'd like to meet, you might discourage other members from contacting you.